Jazzing Up Your Valentine Look-
With Sexy Lingerie

Love is in the air, and it's floating on a musical breeze in the Caribbean. There are a couple of jazz festivals and several shows that are helping to keep this amorous vibe abuzz in the weeks leading up to Valentine's Day.

What many of us might not readily realise, however, is that these first two months of the year represent a very vulnerable time for couples in love. All the romantic music and festivity in the world cannot, by itself, save some of the relationships that have hobbled into the New Year on crutches. So while 2008 may be great for Jazz lovers, it's likely to find many married and dating couples in great need of jazzing up their love life.

Sure, we may have picked up somewhere along the line that the passion is waning. There's something missing and things are definitely not the same as when you and your partner first met. Research confirms that people are more likely to consider breaking up in the period between the December holidays and Valentine's Day than any other time of the year. Experts believe this is so because during this period, persons make resolutions to be healthier, more prosperous and happier. This ultimately leads to an evaluation of all facets of life, including relationships.

So right up there on the New Year's resolution list with "losing weight", "getting fit", "landing a better job" and "enjoying life more" is "finding a new love". What can you do to avoid being a casualty of this break-up season? Buzzz might have a useful suggestion or two to help you rekindle the excitement, passion and heat on the way to "jazzing up" your love life. Read on…

Bring sexy back
One of the best ways to inject romance back into a relationship is through lingerie. Nothing brings sexy back more than this suggestive bedroom attire. Men, being the visual creatures that they are, like lingerie because it is sexy and ignites their love fire.

That it is a powerful tool of seduction goes without saying. It immediately transports the mind to a naughty place. Different styles work for different men, but revealing and see-through outfits are universally appealing. Men are also mesmerised by items that accentuate the female body, so flattering, complementary and risky are all welcomed features. Men are also big on touching, so if he loves the feel of the lingerie as well as the look, there's no doubt that he'll absolutely love the woman whose body it's sensually clinging to.

Lingerie doesn't only represent a thrill for men and women don't always wear them simply for a man's pleasure (although that's a really important factor). The idea of self-image and feeling attractive for oneself is gaining traction. The act of wearing the sexy lingerie can help to spark self-esteem and desire in a woman. It isn't about looking like a stripper (unless that's a part of play acting); it is about sensuality and feeling good. So ladies, it's time to either break out your collection or restock those corsets, bustiers, baby doll nightgowns, chemises, teddies and negligees. A word of advice - pull the look together with high-heel shoes and you definitely can't go wrong. Also, men need not be bashful about buying lingerie for their ladies - it's the 21st century after all!

Love games
Introducing fun and games in the bedroom can do wonders for your love life. There are several innovative and arousing things you can try, like playing naked twister. If you're not up for that, what say you about a game of erotic dice? This game can set you on a path to new sexual positions and acts. An easy game to play is strip poker. Every time you lose a round, you lose a layer of clothing and the winner gets a "sexual favour".

Playing acting is bound to make things interesting. Popular male fantasies cast women as nurses, maids or naughty school teachers, while women want to be arrested by a policeman or have their fire put out by fireman.

If you haven't caught on by now, a key component of jazzing up your love life is "switching the style up". Romance, they say, is like ice cream - it comes in a wide range of flavours. If you're stuck with vanilla, it's definitely time to be more adventurous and try something with an exotic and passion-inspiring taste.

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