Taoist
Sex -
The
path to the female orgasm
In
last issue, men (ego aside) were forced to
admit that women are in charge the bedroom.
Yes, we men, from the beginning, took control
of the family, economy, religion and the state.
However, we continue to find ourselves at
the mercy of women in the bedroom.
We extensively quoted Daniel
P. Reid's much cherished and astonishingly
revealing book "Tao of Health, Sex &
Longevity: A Modern Practical Guide to the
Ancient Way", which says explicitly that
men are yet to face the fact that women are
sexually superior and admit to inherent sexual
weakness.
The book offers men practical
guidelines and concrete instructions on how
to identify and understand the responses of
the fairer sex and how best to engage in sexual
intercourse. So we looked, in sexual order,
at Foreplay and the Four Attainments. The
latter is the stages the Jade Stem (penis)
must attained before it is "qualified"
to approach the Mound of Venus (the outside
of the female sex organ) and enter the Jade
Garden (vagina), before thrusting in the Celestial
Palace - all Taoist euphemism to colour a
delightful sexual experience.
The Five Signs tells the man
how and what the woman feels and his appropriate
actions to transport her into orgasm or High
Tide.
According to "The Tao
of Health, Sex & Longevity", the
First Sign, noticeable in fair-skinned women,
is that "her face reddens". Whatever
the facial expression of dark-skinned ladies,
it means the man should play the Jade Stem
around her Mount of Venus.
The Second Sign is manifested
when "her nipples harden and a little
sweat appears around her nose". This
signals that she is ready for the man to insert
the Jade Stem slowly into the Jade Gate.
She alone may recognise the
Third Sign, which is expressed as "parched
throat, dry lips, and difficulty in swallowing".
This is the cue for the man to begin moving
around more vigorously inside.
The Fourth Sign occurs
when "the Jade Garden grows wet and slippery"
with lubrication and requires the man now
thrust fully to the hilt and move about deeply
inside the Celestial Palace.
To
read more pick up your copy at the nearest
bookstore
Bondage
in the bedroom -
Bolstering
the love ties that bind
It's
considered the ultimate male fantasy - being
in bed with two women at the same time for
a hot ménage à trois or threesome,
if you please. In this age of liberated sex,
such a fantasy is gaining greater popularity
locally, as more Jamaican men contemplate
the thought of doubling their pleasure and
watching girls make love to each other.
Luckily, for the men who are
so inclined, there are many unscientific polls,
anecdotal evidence and online bisexual dating
services that suggest that a significant number
of the female population has "gone bi".
As a point of clarification, we mean "swinging
both ways", as opposed to being a lesbian.
According to Webster's Medical
Dictionary, a bisexual is an individual who
engages in sexual relations with members of
the same sex, as well as the opposite sex.
While eschewing labels, 25-year-old university
graduate Marcia Livingston (not her real name)
sat down and spoke with us on the subject
in the comfort of her spacious living room.
She told us her story, which we found to be
similar, in some respects, to many others
we had previously heard.
While still a virgin at age
14 or 15, Marcia began to fantasise about
being with both girls and boys. At the time,
she was attending a highly regarded co-educational
institution. As time dragged on, her longing
to be with women increased, even though she
had already started to have sex with men and
was enjoying it. She consummated her girl-on-girl
desires in her second year on campus at the
University of the West Indies, Mona. One night,
after a party at the Students' Union, she
confided in her older roommate that she liked
her. She was relieved to know that the roommate
not only suspected her feelings, but wanted
to be with her as well.
To
read more pick up your copy at the nearest
bookstore
